Honestly, while I appreciate your diligence and time you've taken to fix this car, but this has turned into a 15 page soap opera. Please take no offense, but I would have dumped this thing way back. It's been a interesting thread, and I have know issues with it, just voicing my opinion as a member, not a mod here.
I appreciate the advice. I just keep thinking if I dump it I'm going to take a $10k bath and then just end up with another pile of shit.