Wife Just Don't Understand
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Ohh man I can't wait to use that line haha :lol:
WOW! Sincerely brother, you better get this figured out QUICK! For the absolute life of me, I do NOT understand why so many men allow their women to dictate their interests and hobbies, to such a degree as many of the stories that I read on this site suggest…..and vice versa for that matter. Support one another's hobbies with great fervor. KNOW that so long as it does not compromise the family's financial stability, each partner's interests may very well result in occasional monetary loss for the benefit of cont'd interest and immersion. Fair is fair, but be up front and honest. Otherwise, it WILL get worse with marriage!
Idc what she does with her money, if she wants to blow it on purses and that crap, go for it, whatever makes you happy! If it fits in my budget, there shouldn't be a single problem with what I want to do.
But there is problem. And as long as there is you're gonna have a really tough time with this relationship. Nobody here knows the full story I don't guess, but it doesn't sound good from what we do know.
Good luck!
Thanks haha
Yea man we made a profit on my cobra not a huge but it was a profit I am just gonna save a find me a nice one I can either pay cash or put a huge down payment on so my payments will be dirt cheap
Nicly put
But the fact remains, there "IS" a problem…..and that is a problem in itself.
Please know that my argument is certainly NOT with you. Instead, it's in your favor and coming from an experienced source. I wish you the absolute best as many of us have likely been where you're at. Set the standard now and build upon it from here, for the mutual benefit of the both of you!
Well we talked and she's concerned because I just got into my first house and everyone knows shot goes wrong at the worst time. Can't disagree with that! Its just that we did the same thing when I bought the mach!
It is human nature to worrt perfectly normal. Especially when it comes to big change financially. I did the same thing withe cobra. If you have a steady income then just sit down look at ur finances add everything up and see if you can swing the payment. Cause in the end it is up too you man.
Well I was planning on sitting still until I turn 25 to help insurance go down a bit. My birthday is in march which could work out well. Just in time for summer! I didn't mean to thread jack!
Its fine brother we both needed some opinions. I just don't want u to miss out on ur Cobra and resent your GF especially if you guys a pretty serious I. Cause my wife and I got into and she said she felt like I blames her cause I didn't get mine. Honestly a lil piece did and it sucked
This. How many shoes/purses etc does she own? :lol:
We all have our hobbies/vices. Just buy your Terminator. if she hates it so much she's not the one for you. :lol1:
mine is ok with multiple guns, she's not a fan of the cobra though. she hates riding in it, hates how much time/$ i spend on it....she was never a car girl in general, but now i think she's just jealous. haha
Why is she arguing? You're not committed to her so your money is yours. You don't owe her a thing.
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Maybe you should listen to her before she packs her stuff and leaves. I'd be angry too if my wife was potentially making foolish decisions with our money.
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I'll sell you your car back Chazz.;-) Might be a little faster than when I bought it though.:dancenana:
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