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  1. CompOrange04GT

    CompOrange04GT I like Wood, and not Oak in my butt Established Member

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    No idea.

    I just see what he does. And she’s scared to stand up to him... because of their past. And the threats he makes now.

    But it’s technology these days.. he has some lock on the 12 year old phone to where she can’t download apps unless they are for ages 9 and under.. he literally watches the tracker and questions “ why are you at Walmart... or a pool.. etc “ from 10 hours away.

    It gets insane.. but can’t really do anything about it..

    .. yet
     
  2. cbj5259

    cbj5259 Well-Known Member Established Member

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    OP, not to pry...but was there infidelity on your wife's part with her ex? The reason I ask is because I get the whole revenge factor if there was, especially if you were the other man. I speak from experience on this subject matter because I am the ex husband now whos wife left him for the other man (who was also married and left his wife for my wife). They have been together for almost 3 years now and they portray this idealistic life together, but in reality they destroyed two families for their own personal selfishness. My ex constantly tries to get me to do joint "family" type things with the two of them but I refuse to be a cuck and ever give them the satisfaction of acknowledging their illegitimate relationship that was founded on deceit and lies. So I get it...now if your situation is different and he and your wife split because of other reasons than I feel your pain, but if there was infidelity then her suffering is warranted and it's just karma paying her back.

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  3. CompOrange04GT

    CompOrange04GT I like Wood, and not Oak in my butt Established Member

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    Just wait til the kids are old enough to realize they can lie which throws parents in courts because it forces them to get attention whenever they want...

    That shit gets fun.
     
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  4. Corbic

    Corbic Well-Known Member Premium Member Established Member

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    Divorce her and get a woman without baggage.
     
  5. Tob

    Tob Salut! Staff Member Super Moderator

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    Karma's a bitch Nick. He'll get his. May take a bit but trust me - she's watching closely.
     
  6. Revvv

    Revvv Infinity Poster Established Member

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    I knew this comment was coming.
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  7. Corbic

    Corbic Well-Known Member Premium Member Established Member

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    And your getting cucked into raising some other dudes kids...
     
  8. black4vcobra

    black4vcobra Well-Known Member Premium Member Established Member

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    Yup, and you still have to deal with douchey ex. And the kids will eventually say "you're not my daddy" even though you likely do daddy stuff with them and pay for things for them. And besides all that, when I was in my dating years, I wasn't even sure I wanted my own kids but I sure as hell knew I didn't want someone else's vagina grenades.
     
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  9. CompOrange04GT

    CompOrange04GT I like Wood, and not Oak in my butt Established Member

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    Vagina grenades hahahha
     
  10. Corbic

    Corbic Well-Known Member Premium Member Established Member

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    And you're doing this all for what, to come 2nd forever, be under appreciated, a piggy bank and all you get is some leftover aging poon.


    Now if you are divorced with kids as well, have at it.
     
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    Blk04L . . . Premium Member Established Member

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    And then deal with custody rights with the kid he just had with her?
     
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  12. 13COBRA

    13COBRA Resident Ford Dealer Premium Member Established Member

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    Nope. They were separated long before us.

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  13. AustinJ427

    AustinJ427 Well-Known Member Established Member Beer Money Bros.

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    Shitty situation Nick.

    Hope you get it figured out or after his wedding he stops being an ass hat. I like your family.
     
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  14. ZYBORG

    ZYBORG Let's roll.. Premium Member Established Member

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    Keep all of your shit tight. No more Mr. Nice guy / gall on you all’s part. Stop being a rug.

    Guys like that only understand the rough road.

    I’d put pressure on him and man handle him without getting “physical”. Mind **** him. Perhaps get him to make a mistake and end up on the wrong end of the legal system.

    Guy sounds like trash, take him out to the curb.
     
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  15. black4vcobra

    black4vcobra Well-Known Member Premium Member Established Member

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    That and crotch goblins are my go to terms for naughty children! Especially if they come from naughty women.

    Now my 3.5 month old son is a great baby and I'd fight anyone who called seriously called him either of those terms! I'm sure he will have his moments growing up though...
     
  16. ssj4sadie

    ssj4sadie Well-Known Member Established Member

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    This gave me a good laugh.

    So you're justifying what the person in the OP is doing? Sounds like you're the cuck, reliving all the times your ex was getting the D on the side.
     
  17. ZYBORG

    ZYBORG Let's roll.. Premium Member Established Member

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    sleek98 Well-Known Member Established Member

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    Get them a separate phone for when its your time and forward the calls? GPS always shows them at the house?
     
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    Zemedici Well-Known Member Established Member

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    ZYBORG Let's roll.. Premium Member Established Member

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    Mofo went for the throat!
     
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