Well I'm alive and still kicking. After I sold my car I went through one of the nastiest divorces. Because she didn't work I was ordered to pay 2469.00 a month child support and alimony. I lost everything,my 2012 jeep got repoed I was living in a garage at my sister house. After all the garnishments I was sitting at a nice 800.00 a month. It's like really??? This is what I get for being a decent guy and having a good job w/benifits?? She cheated on me after all but in cali it's a no fault state. After wanting to just quit my job and go mia. I couldn't, I just couldn't do that to my two little girls that I love so much. I kept my head on and stayed focused. Going to court battles and custody battles. I even had to get caps involved because they were showing up with black eyes and a lot of unexplained bruising. The mom was abusing them and I got 100 percent custody of the kids. 8 months later she gets 50/50 percent back. If you complete classes anyone can get their kids back even if you are a serious drug attic.
Though all of this I met a amazing woman that has helped me raise my kids as if they were her own. She has sacrificed so much to raise them ,even putting her respiratory career on hold. Things are still tough because of the 700 bucks alimony but that's coming to a end in 2 more years thank god. My ex will always be a thorn in my side but I can't let her bring me down. Just being happy is enough to pass her off. I'm no counciler but I seriously think my ex is bi polar.
On the bright side of things my new lady bought me a new 2016 mustang gt.
I want anyone to know no matter how hard things may be at a time in their life . It will get better, you have to make it better for you self and those around you.
Though all of this I met a amazing woman that has helped me raise my kids as if they were her own. She has sacrificed so much to raise them ,even putting her respiratory career on hold. Things are still tough because of the 700 bucks alimony but that's coming to a end in 2 more years thank god. My ex will always be a thorn in my side but I can't let her bring me down. Just being happy is enough to pass her off. I'm no counciler but I seriously think my ex is bi polar.
On the bright side of things my new lady bought me a new 2016 mustang gt.
I want anyone to know no matter how hard things may be at a time in their life . It will get better, you have to make it better for you self and those around you.
