Thats strange. I have the wiring diagram for my 2012 and a 2013 in front of me and it is exactly the same.
As long long as it works for you thats all that matters. I did not want my fuel pump running if I had the key just on.
Ya man, I thought it was strange too. Right now I have the purple wire cut and the end from the harness is soldered and goes to the trigger on my controller. The other end that goes to the big plug is just taped off and left out of the way.
I tried doing the same thing on the bigger yellow/grey wire but the pumps never came on. I also tried just tapping into that wire while it was still connected and I got nothing.
I don't normally leave the key on for long periods of time anyway so it wasn't a huge deal to me. I figured the pumps run 100% any time the car is running so it shouldn't really hurt anything.