Back in the day, my one that got away noticed that I couldn't keep eye contact with her, and it really annoyed her. Little by little she got me to get used to it and it's one of the best things i've ever learned. There's nothing like looking someone in the eye and getting a feel for what kind of person they are. Unfortunately the majority of the people I talk to, never learned how to do it. They look around, make a lot of hand movents and pretty much look uncomfortable. It's actually kinda funny, because they can't focus on the conversation. So i'm wondering, where does the SVTP crowd fall in this situation?