ill try to keep this short. my wife who i love very much have been sleeping in separate rooms for the last month after a incident where i told her 13yo son to shut his mouth bcuz he was yelling at his mom with profanities. he said he wanted to go live with his dad so i said go ahead and she chimed in saying if he leaves i leave too...i said go ahead but he's going to respect you and this house while he's living here. i think this was the straw that broke the camels back and she snapped. the last 2 years we have been dealing with the stresses of her owning/running a restaurant that was dropped on her lap, my shift work and sometimes 70hr weeks, blended family issues and just the daily rat race but nothing in my view that are deal breakers.
after a month she says she's still in a bad place mentally and emotionally (i can see she is stressed out with everything, especially restaurant) and still needs to find herself and figure things out. she decided to move out with the kids to get clarity. so she moves some of her stuff out this weekend and i help her keeping things respectful and cordial all the while telling her she is making a big mistake. well last night i was in my bedroom and she knocks on door and asks if i would have a glass of wine with her. i agreed and we have 3 glasses of wine while watching a movie and talk about things. we finish wine and she says im going now and gives me a hug and busts out crying uncontrollably saying shes losing her best friend in me. i tell her dont move out but she says its something she has to do, we kiss and she falls asleep. i felt her leave in the middle of the night and this morning she says shes sorry about last night. i say why? lets take things slow and find what we had. all she says is not right now, im stressed out and cant think straight. so I'm here trying to figure out where this marriage is going with out pushing the issue but man its a gut shot
after a month she says she's still in a bad place mentally and emotionally (i can see she is stressed out with everything, especially restaurant) and still needs to find herself and figure things out. she decided to move out with the kids to get clarity. so she moves some of her stuff out this weekend and i help her keeping things respectful and cordial all the while telling her she is making a big mistake. well last night i was in my bedroom and she knocks on door and asks if i would have a glass of wine with her. i agreed and we have 3 glasses of wine while watching a movie and talk about things. we finish wine and she says im going now and gives me a hug and busts out crying uncontrollably saying shes losing her best friend in me. i tell her dont move out but she says its something she has to do, we kiss and she falls asleep. i felt her leave in the middle of the night and this morning she says shes sorry about last night. i say why? lets take things slow and find what we had. all she says is not right now, im stressed out and cant think straight. so I'm here trying to figure out where this marriage is going with out pushing the issue but man its a gut shot