Perhaps you should consider counseling on your own. You may need to see a few different people before you find one that you are comfortable with and believe that will be of any benefit. There is nothing wrong with seeking help. It sounds like you really need to invest some time and effort into yourself. Once you are able to address your own situation/problems, you will have better clarity concerning your marriage and the direction that you want to go.
I wouldn't suggest medication as a first step. As a society, we are too quick to treat symptoms instead of the cause.
If you've been closed off from your wife for years, this could really be a problem. Instead of living as husband and wife, you have been living more as roommates. Is this correct?
I wouldn't suggest medication as a first step. As a society, we are too quick to treat symptoms instead of the cause.
If you've been closed off from your wife for years, this could really be a problem. Instead of living as husband and wife, you have been living more as roommates. Is this correct?