Leave her before you have kids. She's not going to change. If you somehow miracle a kid out of her, it's only going to get worse. She's not a terrible person, she's just not for you.
If you decide to stay and successfully bury your desire for kids, you need to figure out why the hell you drink so often and deal with that. Nothing wrong with a beer or two but she wasn't wrong for chastising you when it went further.
You are to be commended for cutting down on your own, good job. Nothing wrong with a beer occasionally but daily raises flags, even if its "only" 2-3. Think about why you have to drink them and then think about what would happen if you didn't drink them. Understand that I don't think beer is the devil, just understand why you need to drink. Perhaps leaving her would curtail your drinking.
If you decide to stay and successfully bury your desire for kids, you need to figure out why the hell you drink so often and deal with that. Nothing wrong with a beer or two but she wasn't wrong for chastising you when it went further.
You are to be commended for cutting down on your own, good job. Nothing wrong with a beer occasionally but daily raises flags, even if its "only" 2-3. Think about why you have to drink them and then think about what would happen if you didn't drink them. Understand that I don't think beer is the devil, just understand why you need to drink. Perhaps leaving her would curtail your drinking.