I'm kind of bro-hurting today guys and could use either a pick me up, a shit me down, or advice I guess.
Long story short:
Best friend of many years thru thick and thin needs somewhere to live.
I buy my first home & offer him a place to stay and work on his cars and junk.
I make sure to include him in the whole home buying process/looking since you know.. best friend.
Right before moving in, his girlfriend gets "accidentally" pregnant. I say no problem you can stay & do the right thing.
They move in and continue to tell me they are staying till they buy a home.
Out of the blue they call me and say we are moving in with his parents and poof, they are gone.
Don't hear from him since then. (this was early July). Try to talk to him multiple times and he won't hang out, talk to me, or even acknowledge he's avoiding me. Keeps telling me I'm his best man in his wedding though.
I blow up because he calls me only when he needs me and acts like everything is cool. Despite him ignoring my calls, texts, and even conversations trying to get our friendship back.
Basically I told him to GFYS and never talk to me again. That I'm not his best friend, and that I don't want him around me, my girlfriend, or my home and family ever again. Shitty part is that he works for my dad.
He used the crap out of me and the girlfriend to spring board out of our home, then won't bother putting in any effort with our friendship afterwards. He continued to tell me he was super busy and then I hear he was drinking at the golf course the other day. Yea, busy my ass. IDK I could be in the wrong here but I feel hurt and abandoned. Theres a lot more to it but still, he refused to try and be my friend and used us.
Long story short:
Best friend of many years thru thick and thin needs somewhere to live.
I buy my first home & offer him a place to stay and work on his cars and junk.
I make sure to include him in the whole home buying process/looking since you know.. best friend.
Right before moving in, his girlfriend gets "accidentally" pregnant. I say no problem you can stay & do the right thing.
They move in and continue to tell me they are staying till they buy a home.
Out of the blue they call me and say we are moving in with his parents and poof, they are gone.
Don't hear from him since then. (this was early July). Try to talk to him multiple times and he won't hang out, talk to me, or even acknowledge he's avoiding me. Keeps telling me I'm his best man in his wedding though.
I blow up because he calls me only when he needs me and acts like everything is cool. Despite him ignoring my calls, texts, and even conversations trying to get our friendship back.
Basically I told him to GFYS and never talk to me again. That I'm not his best friend, and that I don't want him around me, my girlfriend, or my home and family ever again. Shitty part is that he works for my dad.
He used the crap out of me and the girlfriend to spring board out of our home, then won't bother putting in any effort with our friendship afterwards. He continued to tell me he was super busy and then I hear he was drinking at the golf course the other day. Yea, busy my ass. IDK I could be in the wrong here but I feel hurt and abandoned. Theres a lot more to it but still, he refused to try and be my friend and used us.
