Last nite having dinner my wife told me one of her employees sent her a message that day using their inter office messenger system. The guy asked her “if you weren’t married would you date me?” She said he persisted for about an hour for an answer until she answered him no.
I asked if she had everything documented and she said yes. I then asked who it was and I was shocked when she told me. I know him pretty well and to be honest I thought he was gay, super feminine and honestly I’m not threatened in the least, I had no idea he was straight let alone married. I guess he’s having a tough time while going through a divorce. My wife doesn’t want to make a big deal about it because she genuinely feels bad for him and this will be an instant termination. She says he’s a decent employee. I say **** that. The dude obviously doesn’t understand boundaries.
There’s a small work get together once a month for her 20 something team with spouses. I know very well a lot of them and most are really good people that are fun to hang out with. I told her I’ll address it there and she said go for it.
What says you guys?
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I asked if she had everything documented and she said yes. I then asked who it was and I was shocked when she told me. I know him pretty well and to be honest I thought he was gay, super feminine and honestly I’m not threatened in the least, I had no idea he was straight let alone married. I guess he’s having a tough time while going through a divorce. My wife doesn’t want to make a big deal about it because she genuinely feels bad for him and this will be an instant termination. She says he’s a decent employee. I say **** that. The dude obviously doesn’t understand boundaries.
There’s a small work get together once a month for her 20 something team with spouses. I know very well a lot of them and most are really good people that are fun to hang out with. I told her I’ll address it there and she said go for it.
What says you guys?
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