What kind of husband/boyfriend are you?
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Me personally this guy may not have broken any laws, but I know I would . I’ve been with my wife for 25yrs or so and in that time, I personally witness many many of men look at her and also try to talk to her , all of which I’m fine with and I understand because I think she’s attractive as well but where I draw the line is following and taking pictures to me that’s harassment and I know it would make my wife feel uncomfortable and that’s my number one job is to make her feel safe.
I thank God that I’ve never been in this position before because the outcome could potentially be costly and/or and even knowing that I know what my reaction would be, and I would have to live with the consequences. My wife and kids safety is the hill that I choose to die on
Even as I type this, I’m realizing how irrational and stupid it sounds that I’m willing to risk a physical altercation that would potentially lead to criminal charges or death just over a few pics but I have to be honest with myself
I thank God that I’ve never been in this position before because the outcome could potentially be costly and/or and even knowing that I know what my reaction would be, and I would have to live with the consequences. My wife and kids safety is the hill that I choose to die on
Even as I type this, I’m realizing how irrational and stupid it sounds that I’m willing to risk a physical altercation that would potentially lead to criminal charges or death just over a few pics but I have to be honest with myself
This stuff happens to my girlfriend.
I’ve never caught it when I’m with her, but I hear about it. She’d probably ask me to just let it go so as to not make a scene.
That guy in the hat looks and sounds like a tonk. For some reason, this behavior along with child sex abuse, seems more prevalent than in other cultures.
My GF is 100% Guatemalan and does not enjoy going to Hispanic/Mexican grocery stores because middle to older aged men will make sexual comments and get a little aggressive.
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I’ve never caught it when I’m with her, but I hear about it. She’d probably ask me to just let it go so as to not make a scene.
That guy in the hat looks and sounds like a tonk. For some reason, this behavior along with child sex abuse, seems more prevalent than in other cultures.
My GF is 100% Guatemalan and does not enjoy going to Hispanic/Mexican grocery stores because middle to older aged men will make sexual comments and get a little aggressive.
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Public space… photos are not a crime…. Creepy AF, but cant quite put hands on him unless you wanna take a ride down town….
Best you can do is scold the guy unless you can find an opening to justify putting hands on him…
Best you can do is scold the guy unless you can find an opening to justify putting hands on him…
im definitely calling him out for being a perv but unless he swings first not worth getting locked up for.
Ignore it.
Physical violence is always the last resort especially when no laws are broken.
So make him strike first. And if he won’t oblige try to get all the info on him you can and do some research. Follow him out to his car etc.
You’ve got to outthink the insanity of this clownworld.
So make him strike first. And if he won’t oblige try to get all the info on him you can and do some research. Follow him out to his car etc.
You’ve got to outthink the insanity of this clownworld.
I wouldn’t have gotten caught taken pictures of your girl. Crisis averted.
The creeper gives zero f's, he will go to the next store and repeat.
We live in a litigious society, starting a fight could result in everyone getting booted and possible legal repercussions.
My objective/Thursday morning QB mind says I would announce it to everyone in the store to embarrass the clown.
We live in a litigious society, starting a fight could result in everyone getting booted and possible legal repercussions.
My objective/Thursday morning QB mind says I would announce it to everyone in the store to embarrass the clown.
Like mentioned, outing the guy in public is probably the most you can do to avoid any legal issues. Would this fall under peeping tom laws or does that only apply to spying while being on the person's private property or somewhere protected like a bathroom?
Part of me thinks that dude was just trying to gain brownie points with his woman…
Guy in purple is 100% correct on principle. That dude should have had his head smashed in. However, legally, he doesn’t have a leg to stand on and in fact, could be charged with taking his phone if the cops are shitty enough. Not worth getting locked up over. However since he had it, should have looked at his contact info for later if he really wants to push the issue.
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Yeah definitely a perk in that situation.
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When I see people look at my wife, I just point blank laugh at them. I would just embarrass the guy taking pictures.. Can't do anything physically as you will be the one to get in more trouble.
I'd call @BrunotheBoxer and tell him that the guy said he was a bitch.
film him, filming her and tell him the video is going to law enforcement for their edification.
When we were young I used to let my wife walk a head of me around Boston and watch all the guys checking her out in her tight jeans. We were just dating at the time.
I didn’t really care if they gawked at her and some would give her compliments and that was fine too I just wanted to watch her back. I never had to say or do anything.
One time at a club though a guy pushed her so I pushed him trew a wall and we left.
This was all back in the 90’s. Different world.
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Not sure what state this is in, but likely a complete waste of time.
Further, I don’t know what law it would be breaking.
Things are so out of control, trespassing is no longer a crime where my brother lives.
Police won’t respond to non injury vehicle accidents where I live.
This happens because there is so much crime, police can’t respond to minor things.
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