Got a question / need advice from some of the more experienced parents. Little backstory, I coach my son's soccer team, and have for the past 3 seasons. We alternate between indoor in the winter and cyc soccer in the fall. We are in a 6U indoor league that is basically for practice. No score keeping / rankings. My son is the star player on our team, and scored 95% of our goals during the past outdoor session. Being that he is that much better than the rest of my team, he is constantly the only one getting the breakaways and getting down field.
We played a club team today, and they were pretty good. Every time my kid would get the ball and get towards their goal there would be a scuffle for the ball and both kids would go down. It was about 50/50 on "fault", but really it was just 6 year olds playing soccer. Nothing was ever intentional by either side. My kid keeps complaining to me that he is getting tripped / pushed, but every call go in favor of the other team. Now I am a big believer in having respect towards the ref, even if it is only a 12 year old who is reffing for the first season. I preach to my kids that the ref runs the game, and what they say goes, no question. Well after the 4th o 5th call against us, the coaches wife stops the game in the middle of play, goes up to the ref, who was next to me and my players, and starts to bitch up a storm and pointing at my kid on how he is too aggressive and the ref needs to make sure she is calling every foul, and that something needs to be done about my kid. In our entire cyc season this past fall, he maybe had 5 calls against him. He is not a malicious player. And I have never seen a parent stop a game to go complain about a player. If you have a problem, talk to the ref during a quarter and have the ref bring the other coach in. You don't single out a 6 year old in front of an entire game. Well the result is my kid starts crying and wants to go home; completely ruins the game for the rest of my team. At the end of the game during the good game high fives, I shake the hand of the head coach, compliment him on his kids, and when coaches wife put out her hand I turned away. She immediately went off, and I calmly replied that when she comes on to a field to single out one of my players and makes them cry, don't expect a handshake at the end. Well she ran over to the field coordinator to complain, but nothing came of it.
Even now, I am still pretty upset about it, but should I be? I have no problem with my kids getting a reprimand, and maybe I should have shaken her hand, but she was way out of line and I still think she needs a swift falcon punch. Sorry for the long rant.
We played a club team today, and they were pretty good. Every time my kid would get the ball and get towards their goal there would be a scuffle for the ball and both kids would go down. It was about 50/50 on "fault", but really it was just 6 year olds playing soccer. Nothing was ever intentional by either side. My kid keeps complaining to me that he is getting tripped / pushed, but every call go in favor of the other team. Now I am a big believer in having respect towards the ref, even if it is only a 12 year old who is reffing for the first season. I preach to my kids that the ref runs the game, and what they say goes, no question. Well after the 4th o 5th call against us, the coaches wife stops the game in the middle of play, goes up to the ref, who was next to me and my players, and starts to bitch up a storm and pointing at my kid on how he is too aggressive and the ref needs to make sure she is calling every foul, and that something needs to be done about my kid. In our entire cyc season this past fall, he maybe had 5 calls against him. He is not a malicious player. And I have never seen a parent stop a game to go complain about a player. If you have a problem, talk to the ref during a quarter and have the ref bring the other coach in. You don't single out a 6 year old in front of an entire game. Well the result is my kid starts crying and wants to go home; completely ruins the game for the rest of my team. At the end of the game during the good game high fives, I shake the hand of the head coach, compliment him on his kids, and when coaches wife put out her hand I turned away. She immediately went off, and I calmly replied that when she comes on to a field to single out one of my players and makes them cry, don't expect a handshake at the end. Well she ran over to the field coordinator to complain, but nothing came of it.
Even now, I am still pretty upset about it, but should I be? I have no problem with my kids getting a reprimand, and maybe I should have shaken her hand, but she was way out of line and I still think she needs a swift falcon punch. Sorry for the long rant.