Geez guys, perhaps he's not living in the united states? We have people on this forum from Germany, belgium, japan, etc.
THIS^^ People, try not to bash the guy, as Zemedici said we have members here from other countries.
OP, my old roommate had to basically cut ALL ties with his younger brother due to drug/money problems (after years of issues). Its tough, but you can't stress out over it. People change, and its not your fault. Cut ties, and move on with your life.