I am now looking into the formal process for filing a complaint. The wife is pretty pissed and wants to take some action! Any advice??
Complaint for what? What did the cop do that was illegal/out of line?
Last time I checked, asking for content to search and a patdown does not constitute crossing the line, unless he groped the girls innapropriately? And just because they are white middle classed teenage girls does not give them a freebie when it comes to suspicion. Not all criminals are male lower class minorities you know.
I can see why you might be upset as a father of a teenage daughter, but I still think you're way over-reacting on this. The cops did nothing wrong here or harass the girls at all, what do you plan on making a complaint for? That your precious little white girl is not subject to the same rules as other people? Why do you think that just because of what your daughter is that it's harassment to conduct a patdown and search of a vehicle?