After reading all the replies I think I'm going to stay away for a while,
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After reading all the replies I think I'm going to stay away for a while,
All these people telling you to snitch lol. DONT BE A BITCH ASS SNITCH. Just distance yourself from that whole situation bro. It will eventually come out. You'll be labeled as a snitch by your friends no matter what. Don't be that guy. Yeah it's a very messed up situation. But obviously the dude trusts you and just wanted to get it off his mind and tell someone. Even though he should be telling his chick. I believe in karma and he will get his, same with the girl.
Not about high school or anything of the sort its about trust. His friend trusted him with this info. Only thing a man has in life is his word. Of course I'd want to know if my wife cheated. But that's between them. Not him and them. It's very unfortunate to be in his situation. But obviously he was your friend before her and even though he did a shitty thing, and another friend is involved, you gotta keep your word. If I give someone my word that I won't say anything, then I'm not saying anything.
After talking to my friend about the spot he put me in with his doings I have decided to just distance myself from them as a group of friends as a whole. He said looking back he should have never put me in a position like that, and he said he thought others might know about it so he was kinda feeling me out to see if I knew/had heard any rumblings amongst our group of friends about the situation.
Now I know a lot of you are thinking man your just a b***h for not telling the other friend about his wife, and on one hand your right, but after talking to my friend that shared this whole fiasco with me he told me that he has proof of other said friend cheating on his wife during a "guys weekend" that I was not involved in. I will still remain friends in the sense that if they call me and need something I'm cool, but as far as getting together socially I'm out. I feel it's best for them to work things out because I have a feeling that it won't be private info for much longer. Thanks again for all the advice, and I honestly feel a lot better knowing I'm not part of this group of friends anymore.
You bitched out man and took the easy way out smh .
If my wife cheated on me, I'd want to shoot her...
If my wife cheated on me with one of my "friends," then one of my other "friends" knew about it and didn't tell me, especially if it was for any decent amount of time..........I'd shoot all 3 em.
The OP's situation just became even more complicated, especially if the story about the husband cheating is true.
After talking to my friend about the spot he put me in with his doings I have decided to just distance myself from them as a group of friends as a whole. He said looking back he should have never put me in a position like that, and he said he thought others might know about it so he was kinda feeling me out to see if I knew/had heard any rumblings amongst our group of friends about the situation.
Now I know a lot of you are thinking man your just a b***h for not telling the other friend about his wife, and on one hand your right, but after talking to my friend that shared this whole fiasco with me he told me that he has proof of other said friend cheating on his wife during a "guys weekend" that I was not involved in. I will still remain friends in the sense that if they call me and need something I'm cool, but as far as getting together socially I'm out. I feel it's best for them to work things out because I have a feeling that it won't be private info for much longer. Thanks again for all the advice, and I honestly feel a lot better knowing I'm not part of this group of friends anymore.
Holy shit. It's time to find new friends.
After talking to my friend about the spot he put me in with his doings I have decided to just distance myself from them as a group of friends as a whole. He said looking back he should have never put me in a position like that, and he said he thought others might know about it so he was kinda feeling me out to see if I knew/had heard any rumblings amongst our group of friends about the situation.
Now I know a lot of you are thinking man your just a b***h for not telling the other friend about his wife, and on one hand your right, but after talking to my friend that shared this whole fiasco with me he told me that he has proof of other said friend cheating on his wife during a "guys weekend" that I was not involved in. I will still remain friends in the sense that if they call me and need something I'm cool, but as far as getting together socially I'm out. I feel it's best for them to work things out because I have a feeling that it won't be private info for much longer. Thanks again for all the advice, and I honestly feel a lot better knowing I'm not part of this group of friends anymore.
I like how the dirtbag who messed around with the friends wife, suddenly knows the husband was messing around too. Sounds like bullshit to justify his actions. OP needs to nut up and tell the husband.Sounds like the husband and wife are perfect for each other then. Should just become swingers so they can both **** whomever they want. No respect for cheaters. And I would have told my friend. That's bro code. **** being a 'snitch' this isn't Compton
I like how the dirtbag who messed around with the friends wife, suddenly knows the husband was messing around too. Sounds like bullshit to justify his actions. OP needs to nut up and tell the husband.