People say never to turn your back on family but is this true? What if someone is so far gone it affects your day to day life and is constantly on your mind. I have watched my oldest brother marry someone recently who he allows to manipulate and control every aspect of his life. He has a son who is mentally challenged and has nothing to do with him anymore because his wife says the boy who is 5, disrespects her. When he is with them he stays in the room and stares at the wall, not allowed to watch TV with the other kid, in fear of interacting. Both of them continually insult our parents and take seeing the kids away from them on a regular basis over trivial bs like they talked to their grandson by calling his real mom instead of going through her, as if they need permission. I don't keep anything so close to me that I can't go on without it, anyone else ever stop speaking to a family member?