That's my combo as well. Is it a first gen or later gen Whipple? What kind of fuel are you running? I have 2nd gen with 91 octane here. Unfortunately I still have to install everything before I can run anything, LOL.
On my gen 1 I have a 3.25 Upper and 4 lb lower, 21psi. So I'd say a 3.5 upper and 4 lb lower or 3.25 upper and 2 lb lower. That would put you on the high side of you goals
I see you already ordered....but you can make those boost numbers with just an upper and retain the safety of the factory caged lower....I have a gen2 2.3 whipple and run 3.0" RR pulley and see 17psi and a 2.6" RR pulley and see 22psi. I bet a 2.8" upper would be perfect for around 19-20