OK so here is the deal. I live with my best friend of almost 20 years.
His chick is SUPER ****ING loud during sex. I mean it sounds like a damn porno in there when they go at it. You know that chick in the porno thats just over the top and you're like "Damn, it cant be THAT good.."
Thats her.
OK Well I just met a really good girl, she goes to church, is real sweet, kind compassionate, caring, soft spoken, just a good girl all around.
Well we have been dating for about 4 months now and it took this long to get her to bring her daughter over for a sleepover over the weekend. I SPECIFICALLY told him to keep her quiet while my chick is here with her little girl. Her little girl is 5, almost 6. She doesnt need to hear that kind of shit.
Well, 3 in the morning the house is dead quiet, and you can hear skin slappin skin like someone is getting beat the **** down. slowly the moaning starts getting loader and louder. I hadnt noticed because I was still up in the living room chillin shooting people online. My chick comes out looking all pissed and I notice and Im like "What?". Then I hear it.
So I go outside the door and Im like "Hey". "Hey". Nothing. "Hey, keep that shit down man!" Loudly..they dont hear. I was going to knock on the door but my chick didnt want us to get into it and her daughter to wake up and hear us raising our voices, which is understandable.
OK so Im really pissed. She wanted to pack up at 3 am and leave. But she stayed and left early in the morning because her nephew had a baseball game she was going to go to to cheer him on..
I had to work the next day and didnt see him all day but the next day when he gets home with his chick and HER little girl I pulled him to the side and confronted him calmly about it.
He got pissed immediately and was telling me how they werent doing anything and they went straight to bed etc etc. Im grown man, I know what I heard. I told him that. He goes on about how maybe it was the movie they were watching (MILF). I know what she sounds like. It was her. She does certain things and says certain things. I ****ing know. She sound like a whore.
So he wont admit it and Im pissed, I leave before I get really mad and say some shit I dont mean. He calls me while Im getting something to eat and apologizes and says that yeah, maybe they got carried away and got loud and didnt realize that she was moaning like a cat getting banged with a baseball bat. We talked about it for about and hour, hour and a half. His chick was in his room crying, feeling all bad.
Well the damage is done and my chick says she wont bring her little girl over any more because hell, if they did it once they will do it again(we told them already) and there is no way in hell that if she doesnt do that with her little girl around, there is now way some other chick can.
I paid my house off last year, and I only ask that he pays the electricity bill, it has always been that way. So I really only have to pay stupid shit like water, gas, cable, phone, garbage disposal etc...
One side of me says it's time to cut the cord and let him go his own way. Im trying to start a family and I really like this girl. We both have been hurt and we are both good honest people. We both think this is really going somewhere, even though we have only known eachother for about 9 months.
On the other hand, the economy is ****ed and I would never rent a room to anyone else but him because I know I can trust him. The extra $200-$300 a month really comes in handy to live comfortably(financially anyways). Also, I dont want to put him out on the street. He is like a brother to me and has never done me wrong. He is a truck driver and just sold his Semi, which he paid off. He spent all the $20K he had on dumb shit like getting that chick a divorce so they can eventually get married and fixing his car and trips here and there. Dumbass. lol. Now he has no truck and has to work for someone else to make money...driving to and from New York.
I guess he needs to get his shit straight and get a 9-5 or something or at the least get his own place and stop sucking my damn titty. Im always helping him look up shit online and answering questions about taxes and the law and mechanics, and just EVERYTHING. Its like he cant do anything for himself. The guy is computer illiterate & he is 27, I mean COMEONE its not rocket science...he cant even GOOGLE something! Wtf?
Lately I have been trying to wing him off, saying no to almost everything and getting him to do shit on his own.
What do yall think? Would you kick your little brother out over some shit like that?
There is no other way to move forward in my relationship...I cant keep sleeping over at her house with her mom and family around all the time...we need private time and we cant have it at her house or mine...
His chick is SUPER ****ING loud during sex. I mean it sounds like a damn porno in there when they go at it. You know that chick in the porno thats just over the top and you're like "Damn, it cant be THAT good.."
Thats her.
OK Well I just met a really good girl, she goes to church, is real sweet, kind compassionate, caring, soft spoken, just a good girl all around.
Well we have been dating for about 4 months now and it took this long to get her to bring her daughter over for a sleepover over the weekend. I SPECIFICALLY told him to keep her quiet while my chick is here with her little girl. Her little girl is 5, almost 6. She doesnt need to hear that kind of shit.
Well, 3 in the morning the house is dead quiet, and you can hear skin slappin skin like someone is getting beat the **** down. slowly the moaning starts getting loader and louder. I hadnt noticed because I was still up in the living room chillin shooting people online. My chick comes out looking all pissed and I notice and Im like "What?". Then I hear it.
So I go outside the door and Im like "Hey". "Hey". Nothing. "Hey, keep that shit down man!" Loudly..they dont hear. I was going to knock on the door but my chick didnt want us to get into it and her daughter to wake up and hear us raising our voices, which is understandable.
OK so Im really pissed. She wanted to pack up at 3 am and leave. But she stayed and left early in the morning because her nephew had a baseball game she was going to go to to cheer him on..
I had to work the next day and didnt see him all day but the next day when he gets home with his chick and HER little girl I pulled him to the side and confronted him calmly about it.
He got pissed immediately and was telling me how they werent doing anything and they went straight to bed etc etc. Im grown man, I know what I heard. I told him that. He goes on about how maybe it was the movie they were watching (MILF). I know what she sounds like. It was her. She does certain things and says certain things. I ****ing know. She sound like a whore.
So he wont admit it and Im pissed, I leave before I get really mad and say some shit I dont mean. He calls me while Im getting something to eat and apologizes and says that yeah, maybe they got carried away and got loud and didnt realize that she was moaning like a cat getting banged with a baseball bat. We talked about it for about and hour, hour and a half. His chick was in his room crying, feeling all bad.
Well the damage is done and my chick says she wont bring her little girl over any more because hell, if they did it once they will do it again(we told them already) and there is no way in hell that if she doesnt do that with her little girl around, there is now way some other chick can.
I paid my house off last year, and I only ask that he pays the electricity bill, it has always been that way. So I really only have to pay stupid shit like water, gas, cable, phone, garbage disposal etc...
One side of me says it's time to cut the cord and let him go his own way. Im trying to start a family and I really like this girl. We both have been hurt and we are both good honest people. We both think this is really going somewhere, even though we have only known eachother for about 9 months.
On the other hand, the economy is ****ed and I would never rent a room to anyone else but him because I know I can trust him. The extra $200-$300 a month really comes in handy to live comfortably(financially anyways). Also, I dont want to put him out on the street. He is like a brother to me and has never done me wrong. He is a truck driver and just sold his Semi, which he paid off. He spent all the $20K he had on dumb shit like getting that chick a divorce so they can eventually get married and fixing his car and trips here and there. Dumbass. lol. Now he has no truck and has to work for someone else to make money...driving to and from New York.
I guess he needs to get his shit straight and get a 9-5 or something or at the least get his own place and stop sucking my damn titty. Im always helping him look up shit online and answering questions about taxes and the law and mechanics, and just EVERYTHING. Its like he cant do anything for himself. The guy is computer illiterate & he is 27, I mean COMEONE its not rocket science...he cant even GOOGLE something! Wtf?
Lately I have been trying to wing him off, saying no to almost everything and getting him to do shit on his own.
What do yall think? Would you kick your little brother out over some shit like that?
There is no other way to move forward in my relationship...I cant keep sleeping over at her house with her mom and family around all the time...we need private time and we cant have it at her house or mine...
