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Pursuing biological parents??
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<blockquote data-quote="bigblue95z" data-source="post: 15477831" data-attributes="member: 164184"><p>Maybe I'm not being cynical enough in my thinking through the years and that's why I want to find bio parents. At least based on some of these replies here. I guess when I learned I was adopted, didn't think it was because the bio mom didn't want me, I suppose I had always framed it as they were doing what was best kind of thing knowing at 16-17 they couldn't have handled it. Could be me being naïve. I think she denied it because it was over Facebook messenger and she didn't know what to do/think at 9pm. And that prob wasn't the best way to approach either, but the excitement got the best of me when I found the profile. I'm going to give it a little bit longer and send a hand written letter and maybe a photo or 2. Basically leave like this: "If you want to talk, great. If you don't, OK. But I'd really like to have a father's name and some family history if you never want to speak again." If after that I get nothing, I think I'll be reaching out to the siblings. Being a sudo only child, it feels weird to know you have them, even when they haven't ever been in your life.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="bigblue95z, post: 15477831, member: 164184"] Maybe I'm not being cynical enough in my thinking through the years and that's why I want to find bio parents. At least based on some of these replies here. I guess when I learned I was adopted, didn't think it was because the bio mom didn't want me, I suppose I had always framed it as they were doing what was best kind of thing knowing at 16-17 they couldn't have handled it. Could be me being naïve. I think she denied it because it was over Facebook messenger and she didn't know what to do/think at 9pm. And that prob wasn't the best way to approach either, but the excitement got the best of me when I found the profile. I'm going to give it a little bit longer and send a hand written letter and maybe a photo or 2. Basically leave like this: "If you want to talk, great. If you don't, OK. But I'd really like to have a father's name and some family history if you never want to speak again." If after that I get nothing, I think I'll be reaching out to the siblings. Being a sudo only child, it feels weird to know you have them, even when they haven't ever been in your life. [/QUOTE]
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