So I got out of the Coast Guard about a year and a half ago and civilian life is not as good as I thought. I thought military life was miserable and etc etc etc. the typical 23 year old thoughts. I have a son 4 years old and am single with a fiancé not baby's mom. I won custody! Well I have been looking for a good job and am falling short and want to provide for my family as mich as possible. im loving check yo check and this is not how i visioned civilian life. everything out here doesn't seem as important IMO. I can go back in and want to go AF but can't die to a full sleeve tattoo (dumb) so I am looking at the Army. But my issue is my fiancé s not to keen on the idea of me going into the military and moving around etc etc i dont want to loose her she has stuck through with me going through a divorce and having a child. Part of me says going i to the military will be so beneficial for both of us and would be so worth it and if she isn't willing to stay with me so I can succeed on life the. Why even let her hold me back. What do you guys think I should do?
