Let me start off by saying: i'm posting this out of curiosity, not pity.
so yesterday morning, a friend of mine passed away at the age of 28 exactly 6 years to the day after being diagnosed with terminal cancer. now i wasn't overly close to her, we hung out in high school but sort of lost touch after (for somewhat obvious reasons) so i don't have complete details, nor would i share them if i did. anyways, when she was 22, she felt a lump on her breast and went to her doctor. her doctor performed a basic exam and basically told her that it was a cyst, that she was too young for anything serious and that it would go away and she shouldn't worry. after a few months she went back for a second opinion after it hadn't gone away. her next doctor took her more seriously, but unfortunately it was too late. not only had she been diagnosed with breast cancer, but it had metastasized to her liver and spine and was now terminal. she put up a long hard fight, and endured a cancer that spread to her brain and eventually her bones. the later of which caused complications with her treatment and forced her make the decision to stop treatment and utilize at home hospice care. that was a little over a month ago.
now as i said i don't post this for pity, but rather a question. what would you do? how would you react to such an irresponsible mistake? as far as i know, i don't think she filed a suit (she may have, i'm just not sure). i don't advocate the sue happy American way, i despise ambulance chasers, and acknowledge that people make mistakes. and while i realize there's nothing that could be done to go back and change things, but i don't think i could let something like that go unpunished.
so what would you do?
so yesterday morning, a friend of mine passed away at the age of 28 exactly 6 years to the day after being diagnosed with terminal cancer. now i wasn't overly close to her, we hung out in high school but sort of lost touch after (for somewhat obvious reasons) so i don't have complete details, nor would i share them if i did. anyways, when she was 22, she felt a lump on her breast and went to her doctor. her doctor performed a basic exam and basically told her that it was a cyst, that she was too young for anything serious and that it would go away and she shouldn't worry. after a few months she went back for a second opinion after it hadn't gone away. her next doctor took her more seriously, but unfortunately it was too late. not only had she been diagnosed with breast cancer, but it had metastasized to her liver and spine and was now terminal. she put up a long hard fight, and endured a cancer that spread to her brain and eventually her bones. the later of which caused complications with her treatment and forced her make the decision to stop treatment and utilize at home hospice care. that was a little over a month ago.
now as i said i don't post this for pity, but rather a question. what would you do? how would you react to such an irresponsible mistake? as far as i know, i don't think she filed a suit (she may have, i'm just not sure). i don't advocate the sue happy American way, i despise ambulance chasers, and acknowledge that people make mistakes. and while i realize there's nothing that could be done to go back and change things, but i don't think i could let something like that go unpunished.
so what would you do?