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<blockquote data-quote="Handlebar Moustache" data-source="post: 16249957" data-attributes="member: 187093"><p>A couple of people mentioned that it’s a chess game, a long game. I agree wholeheartedly. If everyone plays on the board and by the rules, the system works well enough.</p><p></p><p>That said, the family court dockets are so clogged up that there’s no time for the judge to hear the little details. It’s a real shame, because when those details show patterns, they matter.</p><p></p><p>I’ve been doing the dance for a while. My ex is absolutely nuts. She is currently under a court order for a psych evaluation and hasn’t done it yet. She’s got a 30 day suspended jail sentence for refusing 2 drug tests. She plays chess off the board all day long. I play by the rules. It’s a goddamn disaster, but she’s losing badly. The shit she’s done is unbelievable.</p><p></p><p>Advice: Play by the rules and don’t even fantasize about kicking his ass or screwing with him. It would be fun, but get it way out of your head. Never show them that they piss you off. Use the legal system to stick and move when you can. Act like all communication is being viewed in real time by the judge. Pick your battles... the little shit doesn’t matter. Leave your ego behind...it won’t help you. Attrition, attorney, and attitude. You can install long tube headers in a tight engine bay with simple tools...it just takes time, patience, and some resolve.</p><p></p><p></p><p>Sent from my iPhone using svtperformance.com</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Handlebar Moustache, post: 16249957, member: 187093"] A couple of people mentioned that it’s a chess game, a long game. I agree wholeheartedly. If everyone plays on the board and by the rules, the system works well enough. That said, the family court dockets are so clogged up that there’s no time for the judge to hear the little details. It’s a real shame, because when those details show patterns, they matter. I’ve been doing the dance for a while. My ex is absolutely nuts. She is currently under a court order for a psych evaluation and hasn’t done it yet. She’s got a 30 day suspended jail sentence for refusing 2 drug tests. She plays chess off the board all day long. I play by the rules. It’s a goddamn disaster, but she’s losing badly. The shit she’s done is unbelievable. Advice: Play by the rules and don’t even fantasize about kicking his ass or screwing with him. It would be fun, but get it way out of your head. Never show them that they piss you off. Use the legal system to stick and move when you can. Act like all communication is being viewed in real time by the judge. Pick your battles... the little shit doesn’t matter. Leave your ego behind...it won’t help you. Attrition, attorney, and attitude. You can install long tube headers in a tight engine bay with simple tools...it just takes time, patience, and some resolve. Sent from my iPhone using svtperformance.com [/QUOTE]
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