had a moment in your life where you had all this stuff planned out to a T, then one unexpected moment crashed it all down to the ground? This is what im going through and its frustrating. I know i might be whinning, or even overreacting but.... this is just me and its really bugging me, so i need to put it into words, so bare with me. My story:
I was getting ready to move into a house with my buddy who just purchased a new house, and we were going to share rent and just have a good time. well me being the animal lover i am, i start looking for a dog because i feel i need a dog to have around and play with etc.. so i found these beautiful lab puppies a few hours away, they were born feb. 8th and would be ready to go to their new homes tomorrow or next weekend, so I was like thinking this is perfect, we were suppose to be moving in this weekend and then i can pick up the puppy i want the same weekend or weekend after. so threw down a deposit and picked out my pup. Through out the weeks, the owners send me pictures of her, and short vids, im getting excited as the time is near when i move and get her. well. My "roommate" started dating this girl and she completely brain washed him and decided that being with her and having her move in instead would be a much better idea then me. this all came to light this past week.
The reason that really bugs me, i had all this planned out and it all went to hell, Im not moving in with him anymore there for i can not to get the pup which kinda up-sets me. I feel embarrassed, terrible i feel have led these people on, And i have to tell them i can not get her anymore because i have no where to keep her. My APT does not allow pets and most if not all in area do not, so i cant just move into a new one, and houses are way to much money for me right now on my own. so im stuck. I know i should not have put all my eggs into one basket but i honestly didnt see this coming from a good friend of mine to kinda leave me out to dry(granted i cant be mad at him) but im mad at myself for the fact ive been talking to this couple about the pup for the past 6 wks, getting up dates and everything else. im sorry for sounding like a little girl but for some reason it just bugs the crap outta me. :shrug:
I was getting ready to move into a house with my buddy who just purchased a new house, and we were going to share rent and just have a good time. well me being the animal lover i am, i start looking for a dog because i feel i need a dog to have around and play with etc.. so i found these beautiful lab puppies a few hours away, they were born feb. 8th and would be ready to go to their new homes tomorrow or next weekend, so I was like thinking this is perfect, we were suppose to be moving in this weekend and then i can pick up the puppy i want the same weekend or weekend after. so threw down a deposit and picked out my pup. Through out the weeks, the owners send me pictures of her, and short vids, im getting excited as the time is near when i move and get her. well. My "roommate" started dating this girl and she completely brain washed him and decided that being with her and having her move in instead would be a much better idea then me. this all came to light this past week.
The reason that really bugs me, i had all this planned out and it all went to hell, Im not moving in with him anymore there for i can not to get the pup which kinda up-sets me. I feel embarrassed, terrible i feel have led these people on, And i have to tell them i can not get her anymore because i have no where to keep her. My APT does not allow pets and most if not all in area do not, so i cant just move into a new one, and houses are way to much money for me right now on my own. so im stuck. I know i should not have put all my eggs into one basket but i honestly didnt see this coming from a good friend of mine to kinda leave me out to dry(granted i cant be mad at him) but im mad at myself for the fact ive been talking to this couple about the pup for the past 6 wks, getting up dates and everything else. im sorry for sounding like a little girl but for some reason it just bugs the crap outta me. :shrug:
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