I found one that is pretty damn close for a rattle can. You can get an exact match if you have a custom mix at a pait shop. The only thing is you need to find someone with a spray gun to spray it on for you....
SEM 15303 Graphite
Flexable Coating
Heres some pictures.. They are kinda bad pictures but I was trying to get an angle where you can compare the dash to the painted pillar.
This paint is a little lighter color than the original pillar pod. But since its all wired up I cant take it out and give you a comparison in good light.. To be honest. I cant tell that it is a bit lighter color when its installed in the car.
Where did you find the phone number? I was going to order online, but when i got to the page to ener my card number, my browser was still not "secure". Anyway I'd call if I found the phone number.
JT