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Getting a divorce
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<blockquote data-quote="Blown 89" data-source="post: 16272631" data-attributes="member: 45161"><p>1) Start interviewing lawyers, find one, and do as they say. Find a lawyer that understands that getting through it quickly is in everyone's best interest and make sure your wife understands that too. Don't **** around, go for the jugular, and do it quickly. The longer you let it drag on legally the worse off you'll be. </p><p></p><p>2) Record everything, document everything. Every word, every email, etc. </p><p></p><p>3) Start inventorying your possessions, debts, living costs, etc.</p><p></p><p>4) Don't be in a rush to move on. That's trading one problem for another. Just go enjoy your life.</p><p></p><p>FWIW, my final divorce decree was sent to the judge yesterday. My ex-wife was content letting her lawyer drag everyone through the mud. Both my lawyer and the mediator assigned to us were disgusted at the games her side played and the money it invariably cost everyone. A lawyer being a ruthless **** doesn't mean they're a good one. A good lawyer has their client's best interest in mind, not their pocket books.</p><p></p><p>Let me put things in perspective for you; let's say two lawyers and one mediator costs you $1,200 per hour. That $200 blender you're arguing over, it took 10 minutes for that to become a zero sum game. Keep a calculator handy and be aware of your legal costs as they rack up.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Blown 89, post: 16272631, member: 45161"] 1) Start interviewing lawyers, find one, and do as they say. Find a lawyer that understands that getting through it quickly is in everyone's best interest and make sure your wife understands that too. Don't **** around, go for the jugular, and do it quickly. The longer you let it drag on legally the worse off you'll be. 2) Record everything, document everything. Every word, every email, etc. 3) Start inventorying your possessions, debts, living costs, etc. 4) Don't be in a rush to move on. That's trading one problem for another. Just go enjoy your life. FWIW, my final divorce decree was sent to the judge yesterday. My ex-wife was content letting her lawyer drag everyone through the mud. Both my lawyer and the mediator assigned to us were disgusted at the games her side played and the money it invariably cost everyone. A lawyer being a ruthless **** doesn't mean they're a good one. A good lawyer has their client's best interest in mind, not their pocket books. Let me put things in perspective for you; let's say two lawyers and one mediator costs you $1,200 per hour. That $200 blender you're arguing over, it took 10 minutes for that to become a zero sum game. Keep a calculator handy and be aware of your legal costs as they rack up. [/QUOTE]
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