I split from my wife last August and started dating again right after Xmas. I have been doing pretty well with the ladies but 4 weeks ago I decided I needed to get some crap taken care of before I tried to meet someone new.
Someone came into my life, she REALLY wanted to meet me (online dating site) but I told her I would meet her to hang out but didn't want to date ANYONE. She was cool with it. By the 2nd time we hungout, it was clear she wanted something more. I repeated my stance but told her if she needed to be "serviced" I might help her out. She told me she didn't play that game.....2 days later I get a text "I am ok with friends with benefits but if it becomes an issue, we end it".
Well we have had 2 "service appointments" in the last week. She is still trying to date guys and I told her "you bang one of them, we are done, I am not playing that game". Same goes for me, I bang someone new. No more for her.
Lets keep the details CLEAN for this thread but I want to hear how long this type of arrangement has worked for others. I am just making sure I don't give her the impression we will be a couple. What are some of the warning signs that she is 1 degree away from boiling my rabbit if you know what I mean.
Someone came into my life, she REALLY wanted to meet me (online dating site) but I told her I would meet her to hang out but didn't want to date ANYONE. She was cool with it. By the 2nd time we hungout, it was clear she wanted something more. I repeated my stance but told her if she needed to be "serviced" I might help her out. She told me she didn't play that game.....2 days later I get a text "I am ok with friends with benefits but if it becomes an issue, we end it".
Well we have had 2 "service appointments" in the last week. She is still trying to date guys and I told her "you bang one of them, we are done, I am not playing that game". Same goes for me, I bang someone new. No more for her.
Lets keep the details CLEAN for this thread but I want to hear how long this type of arrangement has worked for others. I am just making sure I don't give her the impression we will be a couple. What are some of the warning signs that she is 1 degree away from boiling my rabbit if you know what I mean.