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Ettiquette for inviting buddies to bachelot party question...
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<blockquote data-quote="ElscottHavoc" data-source="post: 14244033" data-attributes="member: 93145"><p>And this is exactly why I hesitated in planning this. I mean, I have the best of intentions in just wanting to throw him as great of an experience as I had - which he enjoyed attending - but while he's extremely laid back and probably wouldn't care who I invited I also don't want to appear like we are just using his night as an excuse for us to party.</p><p></p><p>On the other hand, as I mentioned, he greatly enjoyed attending my bachelor party (which would likely be a similar group of guys for his if I were to invite them). Over the past 5 years I've known him, he has really started to become more out going. His family life was pretty rough (which is why his brother is absolutely opposed to alcohol) and poor, and now he's making good money, has lots of confidence, and I know this new personality he has would really appreciate that proper bachelor party experience...and I know these guys would genuinely make sure he enjoyed it, not torture him for the sake of being their groom and their own laughs.</p><p></p><p>To be quite honest, there's also this part of me that fears if I don't throw him a proper bachelor party its gonna cause him to have a certain amount of regret about his past, perhaps hurt the confidence he's gained over the last few years. I should probably just talk to him about it, but not sure how to approach that situation. He's out going these days but he's still a "whatever" type of guy even if he really wants to do something - so even if he wants to go golfing, he'll say " whatever, we can just hang at home" because he doesn't want to disappoint his brothers. Maybe I just need to persuade him to go out on his nights off more often over the next month and invite him out so he doesn't feel like the group is such strangers on that night. That's assuming he ever gets a weekend off.</p><p></p><p> <em>Posted via <a href="http://topify.com" target="_blank"><strong>Topify</strong></a> on Android</em></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ElscottHavoc, post: 14244033, member: 93145"] And this is exactly why I hesitated in planning this. I mean, I have the best of intentions in just wanting to throw him as great of an experience as I had - which he enjoyed attending - but while he's extremely laid back and probably wouldn't care who I invited I also don't want to appear like we are just using his night as an excuse for us to party. On the other hand, as I mentioned, he greatly enjoyed attending my bachelor party (which would likely be a similar group of guys for his if I were to invite them). Over the past 5 years I've known him, he has really started to become more out going. His family life was pretty rough (which is why his brother is absolutely opposed to alcohol) and poor, and now he's making good money, has lots of confidence, and I know this new personality he has would really appreciate that proper bachelor party experience...and I know these guys would genuinely make sure he enjoyed it, not torture him for the sake of being their groom and their own laughs. To be quite honest, there's also this part of me that fears if I don't throw him a proper bachelor party its gonna cause him to have a certain amount of regret about his past, perhaps hurt the confidence he's gained over the last few years. I should probably just talk to him about it, but not sure how to approach that situation. He's out going these days but he's still a "whatever" type of guy even if he really wants to do something - so even if he wants to go golfing, he'll say " whatever, we can just hang at home" because he doesn't want to disappoint his brothers. Maybe I just need to persuade him to go out on his nights off more often over the next month and invite him out so he doesn't feel like the group is such strangers on that night. That's assuming he ever gets a weekend off. [i]Posted via [URL="http://topify.com"][b]Topify[/b][/URL] on Android[/i] [/QUOTE]
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