Will try to keep this as short as possible. For the past 4 years I've been battling stage IV cancer. Almost 3 yrs ago in October they told me I would be lucky to make it to Christmas and only had a few months left. I started with ovarian cancer, which ultimatly spread through almost my entire body because I wasn't responding to treatments. Past year had brain, lung, neck and spine tumors. A few weeks ago I did get good news that I have no more brain tumors! So it's a start in the right direction.I get very aggresive chemo/radiation every week, which makes me sick Mon-Fri. Luckily weekends I can get out bed and do things.
I am extremely lucky to have such an awesome fiancee!! We've been together for almost 6 yrs and he works damn hard to take care of me/us. I couldn't be more thankful, that he's stood by my side through all of this.
I know a lot of you have either had cancer,or had major surgeries and needed help in being cared for. My question is did you ever feel guilty not being able to take care of yourself and depending on others? I have this constant guilt that I can't work, can't do things I used to do, can't help more with bills and surprise him with gifts and things like I used too. It bothers me a lot.
Any advice if you've been in this situation, or one like it would be much appreciated. Thank you.
I am extremely lucky to have such an awesome fiancee!! We've been together for almost 6 yrs and he works damn hard to take care of me/us. I couldn't be more thankful, that he's stood by my side through all of this.
I know a lot of you have either had cancer,or had major surgeries and needed help in being cared for. My question is did you ever feel guilty not being able to take care of yourself and depending on others? I have this constant guilt that I can't work, can't do things I used to do, can't help more with bills and surprise him with gifts and things like I used too. It bothers me a lot.
Any advice if you've been in this situation, or one like it would be much appreciated. Thank you.