Adopted Boy Sent Back to Russia For Abusing His Family

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Adopted Boy Sent Back to Russia For Abusing His Family
(CNN) -- A 7-year-old Russian boy adopted by an American family last year was put on a return flight to Moscow this week because of violent and psychotic behavior, according to a Tennessee grandmother.

The child showed up unannounced at Russia's child protection ministry Thursday, triggering an international investigation.

Russian Foreign Minister Sergey Lavrov told a Russian TV channel on Friday that his country has banned future adoptions by Americans until the United States signs a new agreement to regulate them.

U.S. diplomats have avoided such an agreement to set responsibilities for the adopting parents, Lavrov said, "but this latest incident has exhausted our patience."

"We are now investigating the circumstances of the boy's return to see if any crimes were committed," said U.S. Ambassador to Russia John Beyrle. "We are also in close contact with the Russian government on all aspects of the case, and we know that he is being well cared for."

Nancy Hansen, the Tennessee woman who put Justin Hansen on the plane in Washington, insisted she did not abandon the child, but was following instructions from a lawyer she found online.

Hansen told CNN that she was concerned about her family's safety after a series of violent incidents and threats.

"I still have energy and I love children," Hansen said. "It wasn't that he was just energetic and wearing us down. It was the violent tendencies and he had to be watched at all time."

When her daughter, Torry Hansen, adopted the boy from a Russian orphanage last year, she asked the doctor there if he had any physical or mental problems, Nancy Hansen said.

The doctor answered "'He's healthy,' and turned and left," she said.

Once the child learned enough English, he told his new family about the horrors of his previous life, including being beaten at the orphanage after his mother abandoned him, she said.

He also told of an incident in which he burned down a building near the orphanage, she said.

Russian Children's Rights Commissioner Pavel Astakhov said the child was "completely healthy, physically and mentally" before the adoption.

"Nobody withheld anything from her [Torry Hansen]," he said. "It's a lie."

Justin told Russian officials he was abused by the American family, Astakhov said.

"There was a grandmother who was at home with the boys," he said. "She used to shout at [Justin] a lot. When I asked how the mother treated him he burst into tears and said she used to pull his hair."

Hansen said the child had a "hit list" of people he was targeting, including her daughter, who he said he "wanted to kill for the house." He threatened to kill her grandson for a videogame, she said.

The final incident that convinced Hansen she should send the boy back to Russia was when she caught him starting a fire with papers in his bedroom last Monday, she said. She feared the child might burn down the house and kill her family, she said.

Hansen and her family were set to meet with Bedford County, Tennessee, Sheriff Randall Boyce on Friday afternoon but their lawyer asked to reschedule the session for next week, a sheriff's spokeswoman said.

"I'm not sure there's been a crime committed," Boyce said earlier. He was asked by the U.S. State Department to investigate.

A State Department spokesman said the U.S. government was "very troubled" by the incident.

"As parents, my wife and I were deeply shocked by the news of Justin Hansen, and very angry that any family would act so callously toward a child that they had legally adopted," Ambassador Beyrle said.

Nancy Hansen outlined for CNN the process she followed after she decided Justin must go back to Russia.

When the lawyer she found online advised her the adoption could be reversed, Hansen booked the flight and paid the fee for a steward to escort Justin through the airport, she said.

She hired a driver in Moscow she found online to pick the child up from the Moscow airport, she said. She found "safe references" for the driver online, she said.

She then prepared a letter for Justin to present to Russian officials, which included a photo of the driver, whom she identified as "Arthur," she said.

Justin "had never been happier" than when he boarded the plane for Moscow, she said.

Russian child protection officials were not happy when the child arrived unannounced at their ministry Wednesday. Nancy Hansen said when they called her there was "a lot of yelling going on."

But Hansen said after the call she believed the matter was settled and the boy was safe, until she also got a call from the U.S. Embassy. They told her she had set off an "international incident."

The U.S. State Department spokesman on Friday said it was up to the Russian government to decide whether it will suspend adoptions by Americans because of the incident.

Ambassador Beyrle said cases of neglect are rare among the "tens of thousands of adopted Russian children who are living happily and lovingly with their American families."

"But even one incident like this is too many, and we will get to the bottom of what went wrong," he said.

The Seattle-based agency which Hansen said her daughter used to coordinate the adoption said it found out about Justin's return only Friday.

"We were alerted to this situation by our branch office in Moscow, Russia, and are shocked and saddened by this turn of events," said a spokeswoman for the World Association for Children and Parents.

In the 1 percent of the cases where the dissolution of an adoption has been needed, the agency "has always supported and worked closely with [adoptive] parents to assist the child in moving into a new adoptive family," she said.
 

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When I first heard about this story I wondered if it was going to be about one of my old co-workers. He and his wife had adopted some Russian kids a few years ago. They went over for one, but were required by the Russian court to take two or none. So they came back with two...a boy and a girl. The girl was great(and was the one they'd originally gone over for), but my understanding was that the boy (who was also older) was off his rocker. Apparently the kid hit, spit, bit, screamed, punched, kicked etc. Totally out of control. From what he told me, the kid was an angel whenever other adults were around, but as soon as they left, all hell broke loose.

The office joke was that he'd adopted that kid from the mad max movies that hissed at everyone and wore the animal skins and had the boomerang. Truthfully though, I couldn't believe the amount of patience this guy and his wife showed towards dealing with this particular kid. I wouldn't be surprised to learn that the boy was in therapy now, and it also makes me wonder how often you end up with a violent kid from one of those Russian Orphanages.
 

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This was a subject on the radio this morning and they said he had burned a building down in Russia prior to his adoption, and that he also started a 'hit list' in his new house among other things. If the adoption agency withheld anything I think the family was within its rights to do this.
 

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This was a subject on the radio this morning and they said he had burned a building down in Russia prior to his adoption, and that he also started a 'hit list' in his new house among other things. If the adoption agency withheld anything I think the family was within its rights to do this.

Both incidents you stated were in the article.
 
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Sending this boy back was a lousy thing for this family to do. But I understand the reasoning. Americans should consider adopting the children we have in our foster care systems, before going overseas.
 

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The first thing I thought of was the movie "The Orphan". I was forced into watching it a few weeks ago and this is literally the same exact thing. Except on the movie it turned out the kid was actually 34, but thats beside the point.
 

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Sending this boy back was a lousy thing for this family to do. But I understand the reasoning. Americans should consider adopting the children we have in our foster care systems, before going overseas.


Yeah great point... The VERY concept that fueled my thoughts as soon as I began reading this article. Why go over seas to adopt???
 

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Sending this boy back was a lousy thing for this family to do. But I understand the reasoning. Americans should consider adopting the children we have in our foster care systems, before going overseas.

Yeah great point... The VERY concept that fueled my thoughts as soon as I began reading this article. Why go over seas to adopt???

My understanding on this topic is basically there are many reasons. This country makes it very difficult to get one of our own. Then if you do manage to get a kid, you run a constant risk of some long lost family member stepping forward to claim them, the mother changes her mind, etc, and walla, you loose the child. I'm not educated on this subject at all, however, I asked the very same question of my co-worker who ended up with the psychotic russian kid and he had a myriad of reasons why they went oversea's.

All I really took away from the conversation was that our local adoption policies (by local I mean U.S) are broken.
 
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My understanding on this topic is basically there are many reasons. This country makes it very difficult to get one of our own. Then if you do manage to get a kid, you run a constant risk of some long lost family member stepping forward to claim them, the mother changes her mind, etc, and walla, you loose the child. I'm not educated on this subject at all, however, I asked the very same question of my co-worker who ended up with the psychotic russian kid and he had a myriad of reasons why they went oversea's.

All I really took away from the conversation was that our local adoption policies (by local I mean U.S) are broken.

I can speak first hand on this topic since I've worked in the child protective service field for nearly 9 years in NJ and most states are structured very much in the same fashion as NJ. I agree it can be difficult to adopt a child in the USA, but this is only in cases where children are not legally free for adoption. Adoptive parents that are trying to adopt children 3 and under tend to find themselves annoyed with the foster care system since a great deal of those children tend to be faced with longer litigation. The sad truth is that we have a disturbing number of children 7 and above that are legally free for adoption in the USA. Most of these kids are lucky if they find anyone with a heart big enough to adopt them. They age out in group homes or foster homes where adults have no interest in adopting them. As long as a child is legally free for adoption, no couple or parent will ever have to worry about a parent stepping forward to claim the child. That being said, there have been rare occasions where a parent, typically the father, has come forward over time after not knowing the mother of the child faced the threat of having her parental rights terminated. Its extremely rare though. The best thing for couples to do to avoid any heart ache is to become pre-adoptive foster parents. In this scenario, you simply wait for a child that is legally free for adoption. And you of course provide ahead of time, a list of what kind of children you are willing to accept for adoption. Private adoption agencies carry outrageous costs and provide children with the same kind of risks that you find at the state level.
 
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That's in every system in the world. Shoot plenty of young children that aren't even in foster care are killed and seriously abused by their parents and unrelated adults. the violence and abuse towards children in many foreign countries would disturb many people. Don't even get me started on the children being sold into slavery, also used for sexual exploitation and snuff films. Its a screwed planet all around. :nonono:
 

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The foster parents i think had the right to want to reverse the afoption, but i think that there should be some consequences for putting a 7 year old kid on an international flight with only some driver they found on the internet waiting. That sounds like child endangerment to me, regardless of how rotten the kid was or is, there is no reason whatsoever to be doing that shit. I cant believe that any attorney would actually say, throw the kid on a plane and be done, that sounds off. And now because of that all of the people who are willing to adopt are now being punished and not allowed to adopt Russian children because of this.
 

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That's in every system in the world. Shoot plenty of young children that aren't even in foster care are killed and seriously abused by their parents and unrelated adults. the violence and abuse towards children in many foreign countries would disturb many people. Don't even get me started on the children being sold into slavery, also used for sexual exploitation and snuff films. Its a screwed planet all around. :nonono:

I know that children all over the world are more than exploited. It just seems that things should work better and things that happen in the rest of the world should not occur in this country. I know that people travel to foreign countries for the express purpose of visiting children prostitutes.:xpl: $*** like that disgusts me. I wish they would :burn:
 
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I know that children all over the world are more than exploited. It just seems that things should work better and things that happen in the rest of the world should not occur in this country. I know that people travel to foreign countries for the express purpose of visiting children prostitutes.:xpl: $*** like that disgusts me. I wish they would :burn:

I hear you brother. Unfortunately America now has as much trash as other nations. This nation has deteriorated quickly and its on its way to ruin like the past great world empires. All the great empires collapse for all the same reasons. History repeats itself.
 

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