I will be doing this shortly.....here is the writeup for the lazy....
1.) You will want to go to page 123; in your owners manual. Find the Power Distribution Box; under the hood on the drivers side; just behind the shock tower. Remove cover and find the #1 relay. It maybe hard to remove. I had to use a small pair of plyers, but be careful.
2.) There are 5 pins on the bottom. They are numbered 1 through 5. #1, #4 and #2 are the 3 small ones. Do not touch the two bigger pins and do not mess with the middle pin #4.
3.) You will want to carefully bend the #2 pin all the way over and flat on the side of the relay. Replace the relay. If you change your mind, carefully bend it back. A new relay is about $15.