I can understand that, my everyday carry is a Kimber Stainless 1911 in 9mm. Recoil is a lot less on it than a .45ACP.
How do you like your Stainless? I have one and nobody can seem to get it running right. The slide catches the brass on the way out and jams. I've put a new recoil spring in it, bought new Wilson Combat magazines & had a gunsmith take a look at it and clean it up, but it still happens often when shooting (like once per mag or two)