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SVTPerformance's Chain of Restaurants
Road Side Pub
Young Chaps, DON’T let this be you...
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<blockquote data-quote="black4vcobra" data-source="post: 16642417" data-attributes="member: 82394"><p>You have the near ideal situation, don't **** it up by getting married. If you proposed she'd be happy with you from now until about 3 months after the wedding. Then whatever you don't like about your situation will get 1000x worse and she now has her claws into you making escape very painful/expensive. Also, she will give you less independence/freedom after marriage, not more.</p><p></p><p>If you two planned on kids, which you don't, there is an argument to be made that marriage would be a good idea, otherwise DON'T do it.</p><p></p><p>If she starts making threats about leaving if you don't make it official, then you'll know she wanted a wedding more than she wanted to be with you.</p><p></p><p>Also, if either side wants a prenup going into a marriage, then that marriage shouldn't happen.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Yup, you've been paying attention!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="black4vcobra, post: 16642417, member: 82394"] You have the near ideal situation, don't **** it up by getting married. If you proposed she'd be happy with you from now until about 3 months after the wedding. Then whatever you don't like about your situation will get 1000x worse and she now has her claws into you making escape very painful/expensive. Also, she will give you less independence/freedom after marriage, not more. If you two planned on kids, which you don't, there is an argument to be made that marriage would be a good idea, otherwise DON'T do it. If she starts making threats about leaving if you don't make it official, then you'll know she wanted a wedding more than she wanted to be with you. Also, if either side wants a prenup going into a marriage, then that marriage shouldn't happen. Yup, you've been paying attention! [/QUOTE]
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