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Married Life - What would you do - Advice
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<blockquote data-quote="Grabber" data-source="post: 16114896" data-attributes="member: 70485"><p>Well, to respond to this:</p><p></p><p>I am against medications of any kind. I do have anxiety issues that I sometimes struggle with.</p><p></p><p>Since married to my wife, I've gone to over 40 therapy sessions on my own to figure out what I am doing wrong in my life to make my wife happy. She has refused to do the same. I've made an extreme effort to get to know her, stay close, keep my heart open to her, but, she closes me off. </p><p></p><p>Last night, we spoke for many hours. One thing she said was she was too comfortable and because she has similarities of being robotic and cold, she applies this to everyone, and not just me. She realizes the damage she has done. </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>We've had a LOT of heart to hearts the past month, to the point where we both break down and cry for long periods of time. I've completely opened my heart and as I mentioned in the above quoted post to the other gent, she has shut me out, but, I've made it a point I am there for her as her friend, lover, roommate, partner, companion and husband.</p><p></p><p>I try to push myself into her life to get to know her interests better, what she does at work (which I still don't know to this day), what she likes most about work and dislikes, etc. </p><p></p><p>I would say I've been very open to all ideas and I've sacrfiiced much of my life and myself to make sure that she is OK every day. I don't feel she has responded the same way and still holds back when it comes to my mother, my interests, the controllin my spending, drinking, etc.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Grabber, post: 16114896, member: 70485"] Well, to respond to this: I am against medications of any kind. I do have anxiety issues that I sometimes struggle with. Since married to my wife, I've gone to over 40 therapy sessions on my own to figure out what I am doing wrong in my life to make my wife happy. She has refused to do the same. I've made an extreme effort to get to know her, stay close, keep my heart open to her, but, she closes me off. Last night, we spoke for many hours. One thing she said was she was too comfortable and because she has similarities of being robotic and cold, she applies this to everyone, and not just me. She realizes the damage she has done. We've had a LOT of heart to hearts the past month, to the point where we both break down and cry for long periods of time. I've completely opened my heart and as I mentioned in the above quoted post to the other gent, she has shut me out, but, I've made it a point I am there for her as her friend, lover, roommate, partner, companion and husband. I try to push myself into her life to get to know her interests better, what she does at work (which I still don't know to this day), what she likes most about work and dislikes, etc. I would say I've been very open to all ideas and I've sacrfiiced much of my life and myself to make sure that she is OK every day. I don't feel she has responded the same way and still holds back when it comes to my mother, my interests, the controllin my spending, drinking, etc. [/QUOTE]
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