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Lost my mom, how to deal with it.
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<blockquote data-quote="ssssnake" data-source="post: 16258529" data-attributes="member: 4213"><p>Adrian, I'm so sorry for your loss. My mother passed away at age 59. I was 26. I felt like I lost my soul when she died. She had terminal cancer like your mother. She had been in the hospital for three months. I got a call that she had had a heart attack so I caught a ride with my sister-in-law from Corpus Christi to Houston. When I got to her room, there were no monitors - nothing. I asked angrily why not. They told me that to die of a heart attack would be a blessing because she could linger for months. I realized I was being selfish. I spent the day with my mother, knowing it would probably be the last time I'd see her. I told her I loved her, and I told her goodbye. I got home at around midnite, and got the phone call at about 3:00 a.m. that she had passed. </p><p></p><p>You have to remember that death is the hardest for those who are left behind. Your mother is free from her pain, but you are left with the heartache. How you deal with it is the hardest. Keep her alive in your heart, talk about fun times and keep her memory fresh. That's all I can say. I hate death, but it's inevitable for all of us. I've lost both parents and my husband. It doesn't get any easier, but know that you loved her and she loved you. Prayers for you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ssssnake, post: 16258529, member: 4213"] Adrian, I'm so sorry for your loss. My mother passed away at age 59. I was 26. I felt like I lost my soul when she died. She had terminal cancer like your mother. She had been in the hospital for three months. I got a call that she had had a heart attack so I caught a ride with my sister-in-law from Corpus Christi to Houston. When I got to her room, there were no monitors - nothing. I asked angrily why not. They told me that to die of a heart attack would be a blessing because she could linger for months. I realized I was being selfish. I spent the day with my mother, knowing it would probably be the last time I'd see her. I told her I loved her, and I told her goodbye. I got home at around midnite, and got the phone call at about 3:00 a.m. that she had passed. You have to remember that death is the hardest for those who are left behind. Your mother is free from her pain, but you are left with the heartache. How you deal with it is the hardest. Keep her alive in your heart, talk about fun times and keep her memory fresh. That's all I can say. I hate death, but it's inevitable for all of us. I've lost both parents and my husband. It doesn't get any easier, but know that you loved her and she loved you. Prayers for you. [/QUOTE]
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