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Lost my mom, how to deal with it.
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<blockquote data-quote="Tommy Y" data-source="post: 16258208" data-attributes="member: 194827"><p>I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my Dad to cancer when I was 15. He was my hero. I do not wish that pain on my worst enemy. I won't get into all the details, but it was not good, as you well know. </p><p></p><p>I don't want to say all the cliche things like they are in a better place or remember all the good things about them. Honestly, the only thing that can truly bring you peace is time, and I don't know how long that will be for you. I held onto my pain for many years, not knowing how to move on, and not really wanting to move on. I wasted alot of my life stuck in a rut of depression and sorrow and it did me no good whatsoever. I can tell you that my father would not have wanted me to wallow in my sorrow for so long. The best way for me to have made him proud would have been to gotten myself together and lived my life in a way that would honor his name and be the man he would have wanted me to be. </p><p></p><p>Live your life. Truly live it. Savor each day because it can be over in an instant. Don't allow yourself any regrets in life. Be the best brother, father, husband, son that you can be and know that your Mother will be smiling back at you proudly. Honor her by being the best version of yourself. </p><p></p><p>I pray you find closure, healing, and one day soon joy. With all my heart, I do.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tommy Y, post: 16258208, member: 194827"] I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my Dad to cancer when I was 15. He was my hero. I do not wish that pain on my worst enemy. I won't get into all the details, but it was not good, as you well know. I don't want to say all the cliche things like they are in a better place or remember all the good things about them. Honestly, the only thing that can truly bring you peace is time, and I don't know how long that will be for you. I held onto my pain for many years, not knowing how to move on, and not really wanting to move on. I wasted alot of my life stuck in a rut of depression and sorrow and it did me no good whatsoever. I can tell you that my father would not have wanted me to wallow in my sorrow for so long. The best way for me to have made him proud would have been to gotten myself together and lived my life in a way that would honor his name and be the man he would have wanted me to be. Live your life. Truly live it. Savor each day because it can be over in an instant. Don't allow yourself any regrets in life. Be the best brother, father, husband, son that you can be and know that your Mother will be smiling back at you proudly. Honor her by being the best version of yourself. I pray you find closure, healing, and one day soon joy. With all my heart, I do. [/QUOTE]
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