I’m 38, wife 31. Our son is almost 4 months old now.
I never wanted kids, and she didn’t for the most part, but she got to that age when Mother Nature was nudging her. We had some very long discussions about raising a child in the world today. We knew we could do it. So we planned, got pregnant, then Covid hit. Wife lost her high paying job, plus pregnancy stress...it was tough labor and delivery as well..but we made it. We’ve had to make some financial adjustments, but it’s working out so far.
Having a baby/child is tiring...lack of sleep is rough, but to see my son smile and laugh and hold onto me is an amazing experience. I never understood the feeling until now.
With that said, we are “one and done.” No more after this. In 2 months I’m taking the steps to make sure we don’t have anymore. Snip, snip!
Better go the extra mile and have her get tied too. I know someone who got the snip snip and still had another baby lol