Yes and no.
Her kids have a cash app card. Money can be direct deposited to it.
Now.. the ex could easily take that card.. but .. it can be given straight to the kid these days
I’ll text a sentence she said today..
“ i mean I was subtly attempting to start something with minimal effort.”
( sex related )
And then she got pissed when I said “ so you can put minimal effort into sex, but you get pissed if I put minimal effort into giving you money”
Like the fact...
Her son yesterday first day ever at his first job
Me: I’m proud of you dude
Him: thanks so much man. It was awesome
Her: I’m proud of you
Him: oh
I’m like jeeeesus Christ the fact that the kids are legit changing due to her